Read this if you're feeling lonely
Angela Lim
24/04/24
As ANZAC Day approaches, it’s a time of gratitude for the brave souls who have served our nation. It’s a day to commemorate the sacrifices made by our veterans, a day to honour their courage, resilience, and unwavering commitment to our safety and freedom.
However, amidst the marches, games of two-up, ceremonies, and solemn tributes, there's a silent battle that many veterans face: loneliness. While ANZAC Day is a time of camaraderie and remembrance for many, it can also amplify feelings of isolation for those who have served. For some veterans, the memories of their time in service can be both a source of pride and pain, particularly for those who have lost comrades either on the battlefield or afterwards. Even the transition to civilian life can often be challenging.
In a recent study, it was cited that nearly one in five veterans report feeling lonely, and one in four do not feel a part of their local community[1], revealing an acute challenge among our veterans. We also know that veterans in good general health are more likely to have strong social connectedness[2], underscoring the importance of health in fostering community belonging.
To our veterans, remember, you are not alone.
There is a community of support around you, ready to stand by your side and offer companionship, understanding, and solidarity.
If you're struggling, remember that it's okay to ask for help. Whether you're facing mental health challenges, financial difficulties, or simply feeling overwhelmed, there are people who care about you and want to support you through tough times.
You can also lean on veterans' associations, peer support groups, and online forums for guidance and encouragement. These networks can offer a valuable opportunity to share your stories, seek advice, and receive the support you need to navigate life beyond the military.
Finally, there are resources and services available to you as a veteran. Whether it's mental health support, vocational training, or assistance with housing and healthcare, these resources are here to help you thrive in civilian life. These can be hard to navigate, but you can reach out to veteran associations or peer support groups for guidance.
Remember, you are part of a community that values your service, respects your sacrifice, and stands ready to offer companionship and support whenever you need it.
This ANZAC Day, let's honour the spirit of mateship and solidarity and build a brighter future for those who have sacrificed so much for us all.
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At Friends for Good, we believe that no veteran should ever feel alone, which is why we are proud to have launched 'MateLine', a dedicated, free telephone service, targeting veterans struggling with social loneliness. To find out more, or to get involved, visit www.mateline.org.au
[1] https://www.dva.gov.au/news/latest-stories/aihw-publishes-report-looking-social-connectedness-australias-veterans
[2] https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports/veterans/veteran-social-connectedness/contents/about